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Thursday, January 21, 2010

And they closed school for this? ......

Today, for my step- daughter, its a SNOW DAY!

I look outside my window right now, and there is a few flurries.. but no blizzard. No storm. So why close the school?.... When I was going to school, the snow had to be up 2 feet before they even CONSIDER sending us home or even (gasp!) closing the school !.. Nowadays, here in Newfoundland, They close the schools with the "predicited" storms coming. They are after closing the school ,and the storm didn't even go ahead lol. OH MY! .. Oh well..

Im quite enjoying the day home with her. I have the woodstove going, music blaring ( Britney Spears,"3" ) and making pancakes for breakfast!!

Now,Britney spears is over. The song, "gives you hell" I think thats what it is called.... well, I can really relate to this song! .. Im currently thinking about; who are your REAL friends?

Ever since I got pregnant, and Yes I expected this, my friends don't necessary invite me out anymore. I understand they are drinking, yes I cant drink, but I can still party. I can still come and have fun. Ive had my words out with those people a few weeks ago...I guess it was a hormonal time for me.. but my other so-called friends.. actusually , I haven't really considered them friends since August.

You see, I got married in August. These two girls and some of her family members were invited ( I grew up with them , so Yes I invited them to the wedding ).. I didn't invite there brother because he was a alcholic that has numerous run-in's with the law...actusually he is waiting to get sentenced to go back to jail, out on bail right now. He verbally attacked my husband a year prior, he was drunk trying to get my husband to hit him first, luckily brad walked away from him) and my husband doesn't wanna have anything to do with him since this has happened, and I completely and support his decision on this. He is always grabbing my ass and making sexual comments toward me. I can go on witht he disgusting things he has done. Anyways, this girl didn't want him at her own wedding cause at a wedding prior, he attacked the groom. So obviously, I did not invite him to Our wedding. ..

HE SHOWED UP!!!

My husband wasn't to happy about this. My parents were not happy with this. His parents were not happy with this.

So, he was asked to leave understandably cause he wasn't invited in the first place.

He left no problem.

However, my so-called best friends verbally attacked me in front of EVERYONE ( left me crying 10 mins before I got married ) and left. umm.. I was like sure you didn't even want your own brother at your own wedding,and Im suppose to be ok with him being at mine??...

They came back after the wedding ceremony.. they assumed coming back was there own way of saying sorry, but left a half hour after again, and found out that they went back and drank at their house.

It hurt me that they did this to me. this is unforgivable to me. So since august, I talk to them when I have to ( i have to work with one of the girls), and I don't hang out with them anymore. I am godmother to one of the kids they have.. and I feel badly that I aint around her anymore that she doesn't even know me anymore. But I can't have people using me..talking about me.. around me no more. I am pregnant, I don't need their drama, simple.

they are obsessed with weight, they are all on a diet every other day, and they have been making comments about my weight . I am pregnant, you are suppose to gain weight!!.. I have only gained 20 pds so far, i am 28 weeks pregnant. I don't think thats bad.. but I shouldn't be concerned with that.. I am having a baby! I am going to have a beautiful son not to much longer. Since then the comments that came back to me, I refuse to put pregnancy pictures on facebook. I just dont feel comfortable. I have felt down on myself with the weight I am now, this is the heavest I ever been and with them making comments, I don't need it..

BLEH! I think im done rambling on about them, cause I can go on so much more but I feel thats another blog for another day.....lol...

Off to take out supper!! :):)

1 comment:

  1. Ugh! I just wrote a comment and it disappeared!

    Ignore the mean girls, honey. You're pregnant and you should be enjoying this time of your life. Putting on weight is a good thing, it means you're helping your little bean grow!!

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